In this article I am going to explain how to get a guy to like you when you approach him on Facebook. I assume you have already read my previous articles on Facebook and how to optimize your Facebook profile for getting the right guy interested in you.
How to get a guy to like you
Now you have the right profile set up, with nice pictures and a reasonable amount of friends, you need to find the right guy, or the right guy needs to find you.
To start with the latter, you need to make yourself visible for the friends of your friends. This is the way how to get a guy to like you without knowing him at first. To achieve this you have to get noticed by them, here are the best ways how to achieve that:
Comment.
Make comments on posts of your friends. When someone adds a post or a new picture then make a nice and funny comment. Don’t just press the “Like” button as this adds little value and does not increase your visibility a lot. If you comment intelligently and frequently other people will notice this and will check you out.
Post.
Make regular posts yourself and show what you do and what you like. Friends with the same interest will notice this and give comments which will be visible to their friends. When someone likes your posts he is likely going to check you out, which is great way how to get a guy to like you.
Find the right guy on Facebook.
You can notice nice friends of your friends by checking the comments they make on the posts of your friend. By first looking for nice comments you avoid checking out people who are not interesting or have a complete different life style as yours.
A more time consuming way is to go to your friend’s profile and check his/het friends. This can be a very time consuming exercise and you might not get to know a lot about them. On top of this, sometimes people have privacy settings which make them invisible for friends of friends.
If you see a guy who looks interesting, here is how to get a guy to like you:
The poke.
How to get a guy to like you with the poke is the most basic approach. In terms of effective flirting, this is the way to lose the least amount of time while attempting to reach as much people as possible. But if you just poke, poke and poke, you will lose a lot of friends and will get banned.
If you do it right you get responses from higher quality guys then on regular dating sites. If your target returns your poke it is a very good sign! Send him a message and tell him that you found him in your friend’s profile. The rest of the approach depends a little on your style, you can say that you flashed on the picture on his profile, or that you liked the comments he made, or you can make a stupid excuse saying that your computer mouse went crazy. All is good to start a relaxed conversation.
Private messages.
Forget sending private messages like texting with your mobile phone like “Wont B abL 2 cncntrate thinkin bout U all dy”, and other idiocy. If you opt for sending him a private message, it should be something relevant to his profile, posts, comments or previous conversations you had with him. If you do not have access to his profile, find at least one common point (school, region, network, friends of friends, or whatnot.) If there is no common point the poke is the best way how to get a guy to like you on Facebook.
The editorial style.
Try the make him dream. Talk to him in decent words, and check your spelling to avoid making mistakes making you look foolish. If you miss inspiration have a look here for the best icebreakers on the internet.
Facebook is full of ambitious, well educated and good looking guys who have a social life and sometimes do not really need to meet new people. You should keep that in mind when you send your first message to try to break the ice.
Here you go, now you are ready to find a real nice guy on Facebook. This is the 3rd and last article of a series on how to get a guy to like you on Facebook, the first article is here, and the second here.
