We cannot say it enough, but a smile is the most simple and effective way to the heart of a guy. So even if you do not know him at all, always put on a little smile and you will have the opportunity to get to know him.
Here is a list of the 5 best ways for how to get a guy to like you at first sight.
If your “target” is not sleepwalking your smile should get his immediate attention. The question will be: does he dare to make the first move? He will ask himself: “Who is this charming girl smiling at me?”. To start the conversation a simple «Hi, how are you?” will do.
- Ask for advice.
There is nothing more discreet then to go to a guy and ask him for help or advice. Whether to ask him for the time, directions, or help to hand you something which you cannot reach (in a store, for instance), the goal is to create a first contact. After this first contact, follow up with a quick joke and a smile.
- Pretend to have met already.
This is a technique as old as the world! How does it work? When you meet the guy of your dreams, you make eye contact and you start the conversation. “Aren’t you friends with Kate?”, or “Didn’t I see you at this or that event?”. Of course he will say No (you’ll never know), but the goal is to get noticed by him, get a first contact, and talk to him a next time.
- Make a compliment.
Making a compliment to a stranger is a tactic not a lot of women dare to practice. However this is one of the most effective ways to get in touch with a guy as he will immediately feel good about you. Boost his ego, and he will make your day!
He smells good? Give him a little compliment when passing. “What’s your fragrance, it smells too good?”
He wears a super cool t-shirt of a band or event? Tell him all the good stuff you know about it. Guys love compliments, so do not hesitate to give him an additional one to make 100% use of the situation.
- The deep dive.
For the more daring among us, here is the most radical solution of this article. It is like telling yourself, “It is now or never, I’m making the dive!”. This is a somewhat kamikaze method as girls making a first step might scare some guys, but hey, this is fun as well!
Yes, you need to have some courage to contact a guy you do not know at all. But remember he is in the same situation as well. He noticed you, likes you, but doesn’t know how to start a conversation. Don’t waste the opportunity and break the ice with one, or more, of the above tips on how to get a guy to like you at first sight.